It's Male Indipendent Escort
I've worked with women (and a few couples), mostly for companionship that often includes sex, but not always. Some clients want conversation, affection, or just a night out feeling desired.
Here are some real takeaways from my first year:
Money: It's been good, especially when clients are regular or generous. That said, it's unpredictable. Some months I've made over 30k, others I've barely scraped 10k. Marketing yourself takes work, and expenses (grooming, clothes, gym, etc.) are real.
Emotional energy: Way more draining than I
expected. You're not just offering sex - you're offering attention, care, confidence, and validation. It's a performance, and it can be exhausting.
Stigma: It's real. Most people assume male escorts don't exist or aren't in demand. Others think it's all fun and ego-boosts. In reality, there's a lot of emotional labor and risk - physical and social.
Upside: I've met people I never would have. I've been flown places, wined and dined, and experienced parts of life that felt surreal. I've also developed a stronger sense of who I am and who I'm not.
I'm not sure how long I'll keep doing this, but for now, it's still working for me.